Christian Dating Networks or Systems
A dating system or
network including Christian dating networks or systems is any
systemic means of improving matchmaking by way of rules or
online technology. It is a specialized meeting system where the
objective of the meeting, whether it is live or phone or chat
based, is to go on a live date with someone, with usually
romantic implications. Recently, "couple-dating" and
"friend-dating" systems have also become popular, especially
among those who met on dating systems and enjoy the
interactions, but have settled down with mates.
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The history of dating
systems is closely tied to the history of technologies that
support them. Since live dating systems or methods are usually
not considered as separate from the matchmaking process, which
often employs games or rules or rituals in many cultures, so
these are discussed in more depth in that article.
A notable and recent live
dating system that does not seem to have arisen in traditional
matchmaking is speed dating, which relies to some degree on the
transportation and communication facilities of a modern
society, and reflects its accelerated pace of life.
These live dating systems
do not typically impose a great deal of structure on the actual
interaction between the individuals considering going on dates.
This article is concerned with actual 'systems' that do more
than simple introductions, and where interactions are often
strongly structured, down to the details:
"Computer dating" systems
of later 20th century, especially popular in the 1960s and
1970s, before the rise of sophisticated phone and computer
systems, gave customers forms that they filled out with
important tolerances and preferences, which were "matched by
computer" to determine "compatibility" of the two
customers.
"Video dating" systems of
the 1980s and 1990s especially, where customers gave a
performance on (typically VHS tape) video, which was viewable
by other customers, usually in private, in the same facility.
Some services would record and play back videos for men and
women on alternate days to minimize the chance that customers
would meet each other on the street.
"Phone dating" systems of
about the same vintage, where customers call a common voice
mail or phone-chat server at a common local phone number, and
are connected with other (reputed) singles, and typically
charged by the minute as if it were a long-distance call (often
a very expensive one). A key problem of such systems was that
they were hard to differentiate from a phone porn service or
"phone sex" where female operators are paid to arouse male
customers, and have no intention of dating them, ever. You
won't find any Christian dating here.
Online dating services
including Christian dating services of the 1990s and today,
which may incorporate a form-, video-, or audio-/phone-based
component, integrating them into a single "profile" and
providing multiple means to communicate (including the
telephone).
There are also dating game
shows, e.g. Blind Date, The 5th Wheel, The Bachelor, and
others in which a high degree of support and aids are provided
to individuals seeking dates.
These are described more
fully in an article on them alone, and in the related article
on "reality game shows" that often include or motivate romantic
episodes between players.
It's not a well-known fact
but Singapore's largest dating service, Social Development Unit
(SDU) is the world's only government-run dating
system.
The concept of dating is
also used in the business world and known as B2B Matchmaking,
Business Speed Dating or Brokerage Events. In contradiction to
virtual social networking platforms, real meetings between
business people are in focus. Trade fair organizations e.g.
find this concept an added value for their exhibitors, because
it gives them the opportunity of advanced planned
meetings.
Christian dating services are just one part of the overall
dating systems and networks and Christian dating networks
and systems including Christian dating services online for
Christian singles.
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